What were some things you and your spouse would do together when you were falling in love? Was there a special restaurant? A favorite movie or song that reminds you of when you were first experiencing that new love? What were the little things that you did to get their attention and show them that you loved them? Did you bring over flowers and chocolate for your girlfriend? Did you make your special cookies for your boyfriend? Did you spend hours together walking around a lake, holding hands and talking? Go back and take a walk down memory lane! Revisit some of those places you used to go if you can. If you have moved from that area, find somewhere similar to go and remind your spouse of all those memories you had together! Start doing those sweet little things you used to do again! Make yourself loveable!!! :)
Get him a little treat. It doesn’t have to be something big, just a little treat to let him know you were thinking about him. You know how much you love it when you get flowers or chocolate? Well men like getting little treats too, you just need to know what your husband likes.
Send or bring your sweetheart flowers or chocolate today. You can bring them home or even send them to her at work when she is having a bad day and include a little “I’m sorry you’re having a bad day, but I just wanted to let you know that I love you” type note. Nothing could cheer her up more than knowing that her husband loves her and cares that she is having a bad day. (And she won’t mind bragging to her coworkers about how amazing her husband is to send flowers!)
Get the kids ready for bed. This is especially a wonderful way to show your wife that you love her if you have young kids that require a lot of hands on work to get them ready for bed. She will be thrilled if you smile and tell her that you love her and want to give her the chance to relax tonight while you get the kids ready for bed. Just think, you get to come home from work, but a mother’s work is never done. A little break would be very welcome!
Chances are your husband had a stressful day at work and when he comes home from work tonight., He doesn’t need you to bombard him the moment he gets home with your problems too. Set a relaxing tone. Great him with a hug and a kiss, tell him you love him and missed him. Let hem unwind and relax, give him a back rub or scratch his back. There will be plenty of time later for you both to talk about the problems of the day if needed.
I am the stay at home wife of my wonderful husband of 8 months!! I work from home as an independent sales rep for Premier Designs jewelry and I help my mom with her art business. I even help my husband with some of his construction jobs! :) I went to Faith Baptist Bible College for counseling after finishing highschool.
I may be young, but I have been through a lot for my short life and learned so many lessons that I would love to be able to share!
I have a passion for helping people and writing, so I decided why not combine these and create a blog!? So here goes my first attempt at a blog! I hope this site will be a blessing to you!